24 March 2010

Are YOU A Destination Addict?











Too busy thinkin' bout ur next life goal? Dissatisfied with life? So, juz how bad a destination addict are you?

  • You buy a fabulous dress on sale, even though it's too small. You tell urself dat you'll lose that fatty 3kg u picked up holidaying in Pangkor two years ago (mmmm.....)
  • You don't like ur current job, its long hours, but u THINK you'll feel differently once u promoted.
  • You've picked out a name for ur firstborn, even though u're single.
"PEOPLE TEND TO FOCUS ON DA FUTURE B'COZ THEY'RE NOT HAPPY NOW"

You may be looking forward as a way to distract urself from fixing whut's wrong NOW.

HAPPY NOW

While it's important to aim for things, it's not healthy to be focusing on ur goals to da exclusion of ur present happiness. Just like a real road trip, sometimes, it's not where u end up that gives most memorable, but da crazy antics u get up along da way...

Tips for kicking destination addiction:

- remind urself dat things u've done are juz experiences
- take time to celebrate ur successes before moving on to ur next goal

4 comments:

  1. Betul ke fact ni..?if it true so do i one of 'em.tq myra...

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  2. the last two points are jz great! :)

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  3. thanks to all anonymous for ur comments...hope we may share more of thoughts in future...cheers! :))

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